It is not about "touching" your feminine side. It is not about worshipping, nor, kowtowing, nor, being something "less" than a man. It IS about being a man. It IS about being a Warrior. It IS about being and doing, in YOUR every breath, the RIGHT thing. It IS about knowing One cannot exist wholly without the Other, no matter in which direction your perception leads. If you were wronged, do no wrong. If you were beaten, withhold your fists. If you were molested, use your voice and join the millions that have come before you. If you are angry, fight for what is right and just and protective. You are not told that of the 88 percent that face abuse by non-native peoples, most will experience their first abuse by us. By you. By me. Tell them they have a safe habour in your precense. Show them that they are safe under your care. Tell others white, red, black or yellow YOU are the WARRIOR that will shield HER from harm.