In today's world nothing is promised anyone.
Before I write anything I wish to Thank Ms Down to Earth for covering for me.
And her doing the monthly news letter while I was elsewhere.
The above picture is my 32 year old Grandson he loved everything Mother Nature
offered him to enjoy, love and protect. He was also the new generation that did
everything to protect his electronics from hackers, everything he owned was pass
word protected. Which I will discuss later in this post.
July 10th at 1 AM in the morning I was notified of his death. and left to support my
grieving daughter and his sister. This is what we had to deal with, a first born and
only son of my Daughter Lori, searching the crash site and car for 3 days recovering all
items belonging to our Anthony. I truly pray none of you have to face and deal with a tragedy
like this. Because hours felt like days unending.
With the corona Virus we felt the added stress of getting nothing done because everyone
we had to deal with had their doors closed, no papers could be filed, his computer recovered
at the crash site and his phone also found at the crash site could not be accessed because we
had no idea what his log in or passwords were.
After the searches we got permission to put up a cross and place live flowers at the
crash site where his car came to it's final resting place.
So we did our best to have a Living Memorial for our boy, in hopes when it was over we could
refocus and do what needed done.
That re-focusing did not happen, with the corona virus, and the protests happening
plus the riots in Portland Or. nothing could be accomplished. The only thing that did happen
was more pain because someone or others went out and vandalized the Memorial at the
crash site. So we had to work on restoring the Memorial and thankfully the cross which we
put there was anchored in concrete.
Yes we are still trying to take care of all the paper work that needs to be done in order
to open up all his password protected accounts, but the riots which are close to my daughters
home we are not able to move forward.
WHY AM I SHARING
because we cannot access his Amazon phone which we believe is where he would have saved
passwords and etc. but Amazon demands a court paper giving Mom Survivor-ship document.
which is also needed for all his insurance and union benefits so
God Forbid It Should Happen To Your Family,
but nothing is promised any of us, so I am suggesting as a Family everyone young and old,should buy a small
locking box and place all your security pass words with logon's in that box, never to be opened unless
to up-date info. or the unthinkable has happened.
If we had done this we would not be still struggling to find a Judge to help us.
Thankfully Anthony was not married and has no children or the struggle would even be worse