A wise person told me we need to let others be as they are (if we can) so we can freely work together. Even when we can't see the big picture. It's like we're putting together a "puzzle" we can't see whose pieces have a life of their own.
The puzzle I think is our heart, scattered in a million pieces. Our brain hasn't a clue how to put it back together. That's why it's a puzzle. Plus the puzzle pieces have a way of changing their shape.
So what a relief that each piece of this puzzle is really a chunk of love, a chunk of ourselves, that has an intelligence that knows where to go and when. So all the pieces fit together with everything else (soul, self, Self, and Universe) . . .